What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 14:30
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
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14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
What are examples of real life forced feminization?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
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33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
If yes, what?
Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Is it true that Jehovah's witnesses once thought the world would end in 1975?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
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22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
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21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
If you win, what will you make them do?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
*** Questions About Me ***
How old are you? Male or Female?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Any that are a turn off?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
The Ice Breaker Questions
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
*** Random Questions ***
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Any that are a turn off?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
What is your favorite position? Why?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Family Relation Age Play
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Nothing too Serious
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
29- How superstitious are you?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Would you read them together?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
39~ What are your love languages?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Please share Did you stop?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?